Being Afraid of Change

Change Is An Opportunity?

I recently read a post about banking apps. Towards the end the author said – paraphrasing here – he hated change but change brings great opportunity.

There were a number of comments on the post repeating the same kind of thing, change brings opportunity.

Why Do People Fear Change?

It depends on who you are. If an employee hears a manager talking about change, they may start worrying about: redundancy; less/more hours; having a longer commute; reduction in salary. In a word, uncertainty. Their future becomes the unknown.

For many people change doesn’t bring opportunity, it brings fear and apprehension. That’s why so many people hate the word “change”. Because it represents the unknown.

For many of my potential clients that word scares the shit out of them. They are unable to see what might happen if they no longer have that phobia, or are more self confident, or lose their anxiety.

They have lived with the “problem” for so long they are not able to separate themselves from it. They simply cannot picture a future live without it. The tunnel has no light at the end of it.

People Can’t See Beyond Change

I haven’t found a way of showing people how things will look once their problem has been removed.

This kind of client will make an appointment to see me, then “something came up” making them have to apologetically cancel our meeting. They don’t rearrange.

I’ve learned that when this happens that potential client just isn’t ready yet. They aren’t at that stage where they’ve just had enough of their problem and are ready to work with me.

The business owners you are going to meet may also be worried about change. When you talk about bringing in more leads/sales/clients. Or helping them change how they run their business.

Catastrophising is a common problem with change

They might be thinking:

“How will I cope with this new business?”

“What will my family/friends think if I suddenly start doing better?”

“Will I need more staff?” “Will I need new equipment/premises…?”

It might be worthwhile thinking about how your potential clients interpret “change” internally and be prepared to help them see change as an opportunity instead of something to hate or be afraid of.

If dealing with change is causing problems in your life, book a free consultation with me and I’ll show you what life looks like on the other side.

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